mohataxi
03-22-2006, 11:25 AM
Prophet of love
:Firstly: the love of the man
Mohamad loved the man and lived for him and with him, he loved the people, lived with their problems, Mohamad said what means :
( to walk with a brother in a need [ carrying out his need ] is better for me than secluding in my mosque this for a month ).
At this high degree, Mohamad raised the service of people and made it better than secluding for worshipping for a month.
One day, one of the believers came to him asking: ( prophet of Allah, which people are the most beloved to god, he answered : the most beloved people to Allah are the most useful to people ).
Mohamad said to his companions: ( there are people from the worshippers of Allah who are not prophets or martyrs are be exultated by the prophets and martyrs in the day of judgement for their position from Allah, their companions asked: told us who are they? He said: these are people loved each other with the spirit of Allah without any uterial connections between them or money exchanged between them, i swear by Allah, their faces are light and they are on light, they do not fear if people feard and do not be sad if people became sad ).
So, the lovers take the highest position in the kingdom of Allah and gain the happiness in the life and hereafter.
One day, while Mohamad was sitting between his companions, a funeral ( bier) of some one from jews passed in front of them so, Mohamad stand and still standing in silence and respect all time of the passing of the funeral so, his companions astonished from his act and said to him: prophet oa Allah, it is a funeral of jew so, Mohamad answered him in upset : is not it a soul? If you saw a funeral , get up .
You are right prophet of love, the soul is soul whatever it is its creed and for the dead his respect even it was a dog.
One of the unbelievers who was a neibour of Mohamad and he was always harming him, he was used to throw the rubbish and the wastes of the cattle in the entrance of the house of Mohamad every morning and Mohamad was facing this offence by forgiveness and pray for him to be a good man. And in one day the prophet came out from his house but he did not find any rubbish that he used to see it so, he asked about this man, they told him that he is sick so, the prophet left his interests and went to visit this unbeliever man to ask him if he wants something and pray for him to overcome his sickness so, when the man saw him in his house, he was amazed and said to Mohamad: ( after all my offences to you, you visit me in my sickness, asking me about my needs and pray for me, you are not an usual man and i witness that you are the messenger of Allah ) so, the manbelieved by the religion of love and unity.
The first people to be loved are the parents and kins so, Allah and his prophet recommend us alot by the parents and the kins. Allah says ;
( your lord has decreed that you worship none but him and that you be kind to parents whether one or both of them attain old age in the life, say not to them Off ( a word of contempt ) nor repel them but speak unto them a gracious word and lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy and say O my lord , have mercy on them as they brought me up when i was little )
one day, a man came to the prophet asking him : { who is the most deserved people with my companionship? }, the prophet answered :
your mother, the man said : then who?, the prophet said : your mother, the man said : then who?, the prophet said :your mother, the man said : then who? The prophet said : your father .
the mother first, he repeated [ your mother ] 3 times, the mother who conceive and tired and suckled then the father who works and spend money and brought up his children and both of them sacrifice with their times and money to make their children happy .
Mo' aweyah ibn ( the son of ) gahemah al-salamy tells: " i came to the prophet and said to him : prophet of Allah, i want to strive with you for the God and hereafter so, the prophrt asked me : Is your mother alive? I said : yes, the prophet said : back and do the good to her so, i came to him from his side then in front of him asking him again ( for strife) , he said to me : stay with your mother, the paradise is under her feets "
You are right prophet of Allah, the love of the parents and inclining on them forepart all love and proceed all duty even if it was srife for god and this is not strange as god forgives alot in his rights but he does not forgive in the rights of the parents, the rights of the man to another man is frontpart the rights of god in Islam.
One day, a man came to the prophet asking him : messenger of Allah, what is the right of the parents on their sons?, the prophed answered: they are your paradise and your hell.
Two small words have the essence, your love to your parents, and the way that you treat them with, indicate your place in paradise or in hell.
After the parents come the kins and who have uterial connection are worthy of love and amity, the prophet of love said:
Who was believe in Allah and the hereafter, connect his uterus (connect the people who have uterial connectionwith you )
The love of the enemies
When one of the unbelievers heard about Mohamad who proclaim with new religion threaten their gods with destruction , he carried his sward and went to Mohamad, went and the evil filled his eyes and the hatred filled his heart and the wish to get rid of Mohamad , the man began his meeting with Mohamad with the all forms of violence and rouse and Mohamad is calm, safe, looking to the man with eyes filled with kindness and with smile filled with love, then he started to speak with the man the speech of faith , the speech of lighted mind and open heart and after short moments, the spiteful converted into meek lamb and this assailant converted into friendly lover and he falled on mohamad's hands and legs kissing them and the tears falling from his eyes in regret and sorrow and he said to Mohamad : " Mohamad, i swear by Allah, i came to you and there is nothing on the earth more be hated to me than you and iam leaving now and there is nothing on the earth more be loved to me than you "
What did Mohamad do with this man? And what did he do with heart and feelings? It is easy, it is love and nothing except love.
In Makkah, and during the perambulation of Mohamad around the Ka'abah, a man called Fodalah ibn omir wanted to kill him so, when he came closer to him, the prophet felt with him and looked to him with a smile saying " Are you Fodalah ?, he said : yes, fodalah messenger of Allah, the prophet said : what do you say to yourself ? he said : nothing, i was mention Allah so, the prophet laughed with forgiveness and told Fodalah : Ask the forgiveness from Allah, then he put his hand on fodalah's chest so, his heart calm and said : i swear by Allah, when he raised his hand from my chest, i felt that there is nothing created by Allah is more be loved to me than him "
There was another man jumped towards the prophet during his sleeping to kill him and raised his sward to cut the head of Mohamad but the sward falled from his hand and at this time, the companinos of Mohamad felt with this man so, they rushed to him and catched him , they wanted to kill him but the prophet prevented them from doing this and asked them to let him free.
This was the treatement of Mohamad to his enemies , he faced thier hatred with love , Allah says:
( Nor con goodness and evil be equal. Repel {evil} with what is better .
when lo! he between whom and you was enmity would be as if he were a warm friend. )
in a battle with jews, a jew woman had been captured, she was Safeyah bent hoyay ibn Akhtab, the daughter of the leader of jews who belongs to the prophet Aaron, the brother of Moses, this woman had degnity and power , his husband of the leader of jewes, he belongs to the prophet Haron, the brother of Moses, this woman had degnity and power , her husband Kenanah ibn el rabe'a was killed in the battle, and according to the customes of the war at this time, the bondmaid must be to one of the soliders of muslims but the kind Mohamad felt with her and realized her feelings and pains to convert from the daughter of the leader of jewes and a wife to a leader into bondmaid for one of the soliders so, he wanted to maintain her place and degnity so, he set her free and married her and converted her in a moment from a slave to a wife for the prophet.
this marriage made the companions feel with fear because how Mohamad make sure that she will not decieve him or kill him to revenge for her husban and her family but the love of Mohamad to his jew wife and his continous care to her made her love him and believe in him and with his message.
in the last sickness of the prophet, she was stnding beside him and the sadness filled her heart and the tears filled her eyes saying : " i wished prophet of Allah that what is in you become in me " and after his death she was ready for the defence for his message.
how the leathal hatred converted into deep love ?! how could she forget her judaism and racism? how could she forget the disagreement between muslims and jewes ? not that only, but she helped the muslims with all her power , with her money and effort even after Mohamad's death.
we can not find except one answer, it is Mohamad and the heart of mohamad.
His love to the children:
In one of the battles with the unbelievers, he was told that some of the boys of the unbelievers were killed in the battle so, when Mohamad heared that, he was so sad so, his companions were amazed and asked him : what makes you sad , messenger of Allah and they are the boys of the unbelievers ? the prophet replied him in anger warning them : they are better than you , they are on innate quality, Do not ever kill the children.
The prophet loved the all but his love to children exceed all imagination, his face was filled with happiness when he see a child, he used to hug the children and play with them.
Gaber ibn samrah said that during the walking of the prophet, he saw some children are making race so, he stopped and spoke to them, played with them and ran in the race with them , and if he was riding a camel and saw one of the children walking on his feet, he went to the kid , hug him in kindness and ride him on the camel with him to make the kid happy.
And from the excessive kindness of the prophet, he lets his little grandsons climb on his back during his praying, bowing down and prostration and he was overstaying in the prostration when one of them becomes on his back, not harry in getting him down and corrupt his happiness.
His wife Aisha said : " some of the arabians astonished when they saw the prophet kissing little boys and they said to him : we do not kiss our boys and one of them called Al Akra'a ibn habes told him : i have ten kids and i had never kissed one of them so, the prophet said to them : Did god remove the mercy from your hearts, the mercy is not removed except from miserable "
One day, when the prophet was in the mosque leading the muslims in the pray and read long chapter from Quran and the happiness filled him as he stands between the hands of his beloved Allah, he heard a baby crying calling his mother and she was praying behind the prophet in the mosque, the prophet's heart could not stand to hear the cry of the little baby so, he sacrificed with his happiness and shorten the pray to make the mother back to her baby and the happiness back to the baby .
Mohamad says : " God says in the judgement day : son of Adam, i was ill and you did not visit me so, the man says : how could i visit you and you are the lord of the universes? so, god says : Did not you know that my slave ( and say his name ) was ill and you did not visit him , Did not you know that if you had visited him , you would have found me at him ? then god says : son of Adam, i asked you to feed me but you did not feed me so, the man says : God, how could i feed you and you are the lord of the universes? So god says : did not you know that my slave ( and say his name ) asked you to feed him, Did you know that if you had feed him, you would have found this at me? Then god says : son of Adam, i sought you for drinking me but you did not give me to dring, the man says : how could i gave you to drink and you are the lord of the universes? So, God says : my slave ( and say his name ) sought you for drinking him and you did not give him to drink, if you had done, you would have find this at me . "
Yes, your love to the creature is the love to the creator and your benevolence to the creature is a benevolence to the creator as the creature is a part of the creator and a piece from him and everything offends to the creature , offends to the creator.
Prophet of love said : could i tell you about something if you did, you will love each other ? Spread the peace between you .
Also, he said : three things clarify to you the pleasure of your brother, salute him if you met him, make room for him in the seat and call him with the best names he loves.
One day, the prophet was setting with one of his companions then a man passed through them so, the companion of the prophet pointed to the man who was passing through them and said : messenger of Allah, i love this man so, the prophet asked him : Did you tell him that ? the companion said : no, the prophet told him : Tell him so, the companion ran behind the man till he overtakes him and told him : I love you for Allah so, his friend replied him : may Allah who you loved me for, loves you .
Then the prophet put a general direction and said : " if one of you loved his brother, tell him that you love him "
Also, the prophet said : " if you were three, two do not commune without the third becaust it makes him sad "
Also,The prophet said : " it is not permissible for a believer to point to his brother with a look harms him"
The love and the sex:
Some of religions before Islam looked to the sex with a look of dirtiness and disapproving and proclaim to the celibacy and isolation in the deserts away from the society.
The saint Paule said : " the best for the man is not to touch a woman because i want all the people to be like me, i say to the non married and widowers that it is good for them if they stay as me "
( see the first message of Paule to Kornthos people 1,7-8 )
like this, Paule call all the people men and women to the celibacy , monasticism and loneliness without marriage and if the people had obeyed this proclaimation, the land would have been desolated and there would not be any grandsons for us still alive and there would not be any civilization or any kinds of science, Arts, creation and beauty that the man made it all over the ages so, Islam refused this unjust proclaimation to torment the soul and the death of the body, Allah says in Quran :
(And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.) [ Chapter : The Romans ]
One day, the prophet went to his wife Aisha, he found a woman setting with her and the misery filled his face and the careless is obvious on her clothes so, the prophet asked about her, so, they told him that she is a wife for a man called Osman ibn maz'oon and she complains that her husband is busy with worshipping all the day and night so, the prophet asked to see Osman and when he came, the prophet asked him : Do you fast at morning and pray all night? Osman answered : Yes so, the prophet told him : Do not do this, your body has a right on you and your family has a right on you so, give each one his right .
Osman obeyed the prophet and gave himself his right and his wife her wife so, the happiness returned to the house and to the family and became a good reproducer cell in society.
Each man from us is a soul and a body and the soul and the body are two faces to one coin so, as the soul has its right , the body also has its right and if the right of the soul is the faith , love and worshipping, the right of body is the food, sex and rest.
Giving the right to the body makes the soul happy and giving the right to the soul makes the body happy as both of them complete the other and if the man gave the complete right to his soul and body, he would be a good servant to God and natural human and he will live happy and tranquil and he will be acceptable to the work, struggle and success .
But giving the right to the body by food does not mean gluttony in eating and drinking and giving its right in resting does not mean laziness and idleness also, satisfying the instinct of sex does not mean decomposition from values and principles but it means practicing sex in its allowed limits while adultery is unlawful because it is gross injustice, gross injustice on the others.
One day, an arabian came to the prophet asking him in impudence to give him a permission to commit the adultery without limits because when he sees any woman , he wanted to sleep with her without control so, the prophet made the man sit beside him and put his hand on his shoulder and asked him in calmness : " Brother of Arabs , Do you like adultery to your mother ? the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it your wife?, the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it to your daughter?, the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it to your sister ? the man said : No then the prophet said : also, people brother of arabs, do not like it to their mothers, wives, daughters or sisters so, the man said in bashfulness : so, pray to God for me to make me loves the chastity and makes me hate the debauchery so, the prophet put his hand with kindness on the chest of the man and pray for him, the man said : I swear by Allah, as soon as the prophet had said what he said , i left him and there is nothing is more be hated to my soul than adultery ".
Yes, love to your brother what you love to yourself and hate to your brother what you hate to yourself, do not commit adultery with his wife or his daughter or his sister, the people do not commit adultery
with yours .
marriage is a holy tie where the soul must be higher than body and the love must forepart the benefits while if marriage becomes vacant from love, it becomes heavy restiction.
The sex alone is a cold sense so, the prophet covet eagerly to make love is the main of sex and the condition to practice it, prophet of love said: " people who had believed , do not be thrown on your women like beasts but make between you and them a messenger, the companions asked : and what is the messenger , messenger of Allah ? he said : The kiss ".
The kiss here is not meant by itself but because it is considered a form of love and expression of feelings and a way from many other ways to awake the kindness.
The prophet of love covet eagerly to call the women to take care with theirselves and to clean their bodies and clothes and to polish the hands, limbs, hair and nails and generally to put the touches of beauty and feminity on their bodies and their shapes to gain their husbands' love.
One day, Hend bent abi sofian came to the prophet and told him :
" messenger of Allah, bargain me, the prophet said in anger : i will not bargain you till you change your hands, they are like to be hands of lion . "
think in his precious advices when he made attention to women about an important thing which they were inadvertents about it, an important thing that in which centers of beauty, houses of clothes, hair dresser shops, perfumes manfufacture and make up had been set up after this by hundreds of years all over the world.
And as the prophet guide the woman to things that make her husband loves her, also, he guided the man to the things that makes him glad with the love of his wife.
The first thing from these matters but the first of duties is clearness also, the prophet called the men to adorn, clean and to the good clothes till husband gain his wife love and admiration.
The prophet of love said to his companions : " wash your clothes, cut something from your hair, wash your teeth by Meswak, adorn and be clean as sons of Israel did not do this so, their wives commit adultery"
The previous religions before Islam did not care with the side of taking care of body and its clean and adornment and they proclaim with caring with soul only and they exaggerate to a degree that some of them imagine that the cleanness of the body and improvement the shape of man is hated thing and it is a showy which is against the religion but, this theory is wrong as both the soul and body are connected in the entiry of human so, it is not right to make the soul pure while the the body is dirty or to make the soul is the position of our care and the body is the position of our carelessness.
Aisha the wife of the prophet said : " one of the companions of the prophet were waiting for them outside the door and he was getting out for them, there was a vessel of water in the house so, he looked at the water and comb his beard and his hair so, i said : messenger of Allah, even you do this ? he said : yes, if the man comes out to see his brothers , he should polish himself as Allah is beautiful , loves the beauty. "
Although the generous messenger had great responsibilities and occupations and at the worst times during the increasement of griefs and accumulation of problems, he was the most flexible people with his wives, he was pity to let them ( his wives ) see him unsmiled in their faces, he was coveting eagerly to visit them at morning and evening and solve their problems and what may expose to them in their daily lives, he was laughing with them , he was helping their wives in the house works and take care with the service of house and the arrangement of it with them , he was calling his companions to imitate him and help their wives in all matters and encourage the men and say : " your service to your wives is alms . "
The love of the animals :
He (peace be upon him ) was feeding the animals with his hands and he was leaving his seat and leaving his friends to incline the vessel by himself in kindness to thirst cat and still holding the vessel between his hands in kindness and happiness to leave the enough time to the cat to irrigate its thirsty and if he heard at midnight sound of cat or dog at him feel with coldness or hungry , he was getting up from his bed eventhough he was tired , and open the door to serve this animal and stay beside him and do not back to his bed till he feels secure on this weak animal.
And if some of these animals had a disease , he cured it, watched over it , give it the medicine and take care of it till it was cured , he was cleaning his horse with the sleeve of his shirt and grieve for the death of a bird which the brother of his servant was amusing with it.
One day, Aisha was riding beast and it was walking slowly and Aisha afraid to be late from the convoy so, she hit the beast to make it hurry but, the prophet became upset for what she had done and told her : " Aisha, you should have kindness as Allah give for kindness what does not give for violence ".
Abdel rahman ibn abdel lah say : " we were with messenger of Allah in journey , we saw a bird with its 2 babies so, we took them from it so, it came flying around the nest looking for its babies, when the messenger came and saw the anxious bird and felt with its disturbance because of the absence of its babies, he looked at us in angry and said : " who distress this in its babies ? so, we told him about what we did , he said : give its babies back " .
Prophet of love said : " A woman had been tormented because of a cat, she imprisoned it till it died, neither she feed it or gave it to drink nor she left it eat from the wastes of the ground "
So, she entered the hell because of it , he also said : " Allah had forgived a debauchee woman because she passed through a dog on the head of a well gasping and the thirsty closed to kill him so, she took off her shoe , tied it with her veil, filled it with water and irrigate the dog so, Allah forgived her because of this "
A woman enter the hill because of a cat and another enter the paradise because of a dog, this because the matter at the end is not a matter of cat or dog but, it is the matter of heart, the matter of love, the love which is the main of faith.
The feelings of the prophet of love had exceed all the limits , he loved everything in the universe and everything created by Allah from human, animal, bird, plant and even the solid, he was not cutting a tree of flower , he was coviting eagerly his companions with plant, trees and flowers and taking care of them .
The love of Mohamad was not content with the living organisms only but also the solids, he said about Ohod mountain : " Ohod, a mountain, we love it and it loves us ".
In the mosque of the prophet in the town and before the menbar (wooden stairs to make the prophet in high position to be seen ) was made, he was making a speech to the prayers on Friday and in the occasions and feasts standing to the trunk of a palm so, when the menbar was made and the prophet stand on it for the first time , he turned his face and turned his sight towards the trunk of the noble palm that he was standing to it before, his eyes shed tears and when he finished the speech and the pray, he left the menbar and went to the palm and hug it in thinness and kindness, in loyality and yearning and he recommended with putting the trunk in the ceiling of the mosque and in the highest place in it for preserving it and honouring it .
Peace be upon you Mohamad, you who taught us the love, the origion of life and the main of love, the flowing of the good, the mover of life and the way to gain the hereafter, the happiness of earth and the comfort of paradise.
The love and nothing before love, the love and everything after love , the love and nothing except love and Allah the lover guide us to love and Allah the love fit us by love.
:Firstly: the love of the man
Mohamad loved the man and lived for him and with him, he loved the people, lived with their problems, Mohamad said what means :
( to walk with a brother in a need [ carrying out his need ] is better for me than secluding in my mosque this for a month ).
At this high degree, Mohamad raised the service of people and made it better than secluding for worshipping for a month.
One day, one of the believers came to him asking: ( prophet of Allah, which people are the most beloved to god, he answered : the most beloved people to Allah are the most useful to people ).
Mohamad said to his companions: ( there are people from the worshippers of Allah who are not prophets or martyrs are be exultated by the prophets and martyrs in the day of judgement for their position from Allah, their companions asked: told us who are they? He said: these are people loved each other with the spirit of Allah without any uterial connections between them or money exchanged between them, i swear by Allah, their faces are light and they are on light, they do not fear if people feard and do not be sad if people became sad ).
So, the lovers take the highest position in the kingdom of Allah and gain the happiness in the life and hereafter.
One day, while Mohamad was sitting between his companions, a funeral ( bier) of some one from jews passed in front of them so, Mohamad stand and still standing in silence and respect all time of the passing of the funeral so, his companions astonished from his act and said to him: prophet oa Allah, it is a funeral of jew so, Mohamad answered him in upset : is not it a soul? If you saw a funeral , get up .
You are right prophet of love, the soul is soul whatever it is its creed and for the dead his respect even it was a dog.
One of the unbelievers who was a neibour of Mohamad and he was always harming him, he was used to throw the rubbish and the wastes of the cattle in the entrance of the house of Mohamad every morning and Mohamad was facing this offence by forgiveness and pray for him to be a good man. And in one day the prophet came out from his house but he did not find any rubbish that he used to see it so, he asked about this man, they told him that he is sick so, the prophet left his interests and went to visit this unbeliever man to ask him if he wants something and pray for him to overcome his sickness so, when the man saw him in his house, he was amazed and said to Mohamad: ( after all my offences to you, you visit me in my sickness, asking me about my needs and pray for me, you are not an usual man and i witness that you are the messenger of Allah ) so, the manbelieved by the religion of love and unity.
The first people to be loved are the parents and kins so, Allah and his prophet recommend us alot by the parents and the kins. Allah says ;
( your lord has decreed that you worship none but him and that you be kind to parents whether one or both of them attain old age in the life, say not to them Off ( a word of contempt ) nor repel them but speak unto them a gracious word and lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy and say O my lord , have mercy on them as they brought me up when i was little )
one day, a man came to the prophet asking him : { who is the most deserved people with my companionship? }, the prophet answered :
your mother, the man said : then who?, the prophet said : your mother, the man said : then who?, the prophet said :your mother, the man said : then who? The prophet said : your father .
the mother first, he repeated [ your mother ] 3 times, the mother who conceive and tired and suckled then the father who works and spend money and brought up his children and both of them sacrifice with their times and money to make their children happy .
Mo' aweyah ibn ( the son of ) gahemah al-salamy tells: " i came to the prophet and said to him : prophet of Allah, i want to strive with you for the God and hereafter so, the prophrt asked me : Is your mother alive? I said : yes, the prophet said : back and do the good to her so, i came to him from his side then in front of him asking him again ( for strife) , he said to me : stay with your mother, the paradise is under her feets "
You are right prophet of Allah, the love of the parents and inclining on them forepart all love and proceed all duty even if it was srife for god and this is not strange as god forgives alot in his rights but he does not forgive in the rights of the parents, the rights of the man to another man is frontpart the rights of god in Islam.
One day, a man came to the prophet asking him : messenger of Allah, what is the right of the parents on their sons?, the prophed answered: they are your paradise and your hell.
Two small words have the essence, your love to your parents, and the way that you treat them with, indicate your place in paradise or in hell.
After the parents come the kins and who have uterial connection are worthy of love and amity, the prophet of love said:
Who was believe in Allah and the hereafter, connect his uterus (connect the people who have uterial connectionwith you )
The love of the enemies
When one of the unbelievers heard about Mohamad who proclaim with new religion threaten their gods with destruction , he carried his sward and went to Mohamad, went and the evil filled his eyes and the hatred filled his heart and the wish to get rid of Mohamad , the man began his meeting with Mohamad with the all forms of violence and rouse and Mohamad is calm, safe, looking to the man with eyes filled with kindness and with smile filled with love, then he started to speak with the man the speech of faith , the speech of lighted mind and open heart and after short moments, the spiteful converted into meek lamb and this assailant converted into friendly lover and he falled on mohamad's hands and legs kissing them and the tears falling from his eyes in regret and sorrow and he said to Mohamad : " Mohamad, i swear by Allah, i came to you and there is nothing on the earth more be hated to me than you and iam leaving now and there is nothing on the earth more be loved to me than you "
What did Mohamad do with this man? And what did he do with heart and feelings? It is easy, it is love and nothing except love.
In Makkah, and during the perambulation of Mohamad around the Ka'abah, a man called Fodalah ibn omir wanted to kill him so, when he came closer to him, the prophet felt with him and looked to him with a smile saying " Are you Fodalah ?, he said : yes, fodalah messenger of Allah, the prophet said : what do you say to yourself ? he said : nothing, i was mention Allah so, the prophet laughed with forgiveness and told Fodalah : Ask the forgiveness from Allah, then he put his hand on fodalah's chest so, his heart calm and said : i swear by Allah, when he raised his hand from my chest, i felt that there is nothing created by Allah is more be loved to me than him "
There was another man jumped towards the prophet during his sleeping to kill him and raised his sward to cut the head of Mohamad but the sward falled from his hand and at this time, the companinos of Mohamad felt with this man so, they rushed to him and catched him , they wanted to kill him but the prophet prevented them from doing this and asked them to let him free.
This was the treatement of Mohamad to his enemies , he faced thier hatred with love , Allah says:
( Nor con goodness and evil be equal. Repel {evil} with what is better .
when lo! he between whom and you was enmity would be as if he were a warm friend. )
in a battle with jews, a jew woman had been captured, she was Safeyah bent hoyay ibn Akhtab, the daughter of the leader of jews who belongs to the prophet Aaron, the brother of Moses, this woman had degnity and power , his husband of the leader of jewes, he belongs to the prophet Haron, the brother of Moses, this woman had degnity and power , her husband Kenanah ibn el rabe'a was killed in the battle, and according to the customes of the war at this time, the bondmaid must be to one of the soliders of muslims but the kind Mohamad felt with her and realized her feelings and pains to convert from the daughter of the leader of jewes and a wife to a leader into bondmaid for one of the soliders so, he wanted to maintain her place and degnity so, he set her free and married her and converted her in a moment from a slave to a wife for the prophet.
this marriage made the companions feel with fear because how Mohamad make sure that she will not decieve him or kill him to revenge for her husban and her family but the love of Mohamad to his jew wife and his continous care to her made her love him and believe in him and with his message.
in the last sickness of the prophet, she was stnding beside him and the sadness filled her heart and the tears filled her eyes saying : " i wished prophet of Allah that what is in you become in me " and after his death she was ready for the defence for his message.
how the leathal hatred converted into deep love ?! how could she forget her judaism and racism? how could she forget the disagreement between muslims and jewes ? not that only, but she helped the muslims with all her power , with her money and effort even after Mohamad's death.
we can not find except one answer, it is Mohamad and the heart of mohamad.
His love to the children:
In one of the battles with the unbelievers, he was told that some of the boys of the unbelievers were killed in the battle so, when Mohamad heared that, he was so sad so, his companions were amazed and asked him : what makes you sad , messenger of Allah and they are the boys of the unbelievers ? the prophet replied him in anger warning them : they are better than you , they are on innate quality, Do not ever kill the children.
The prophet loved the all but his love to children exceed all imagination, his face was filled with happiness when he see a child, he used to hug the children and play with them.
Gaber ibn samrah said that during the walking of the prophet, he saw some children are making race so, he stopped and spoke to them, played with them and ran in the race with them , and if he was riding a camel and saw one of the children walking on his feet, he went to the kid , hug him in kindness and ride him on the camel with him to make the kid happy.
And from the excessive kindness of the prophet, he lets his little grandsons climb on his back during his praying, bowing down and prostration and he was overstaying in the prostration when one of them becomes on his back, not harry in getting him down and corrupt his happiness.
His wife Aisha said : " some of the arabians astonished when they saw the prophet kissing little boys and they said to him : we do not kiss our boys and one of them called Al Akra'a ibn habes told him : i have ten kids and i had never kissed one of them so, the prophet said to them : Did god remove the mercy from your hearts, the mercy is not removed except from miserable "
One day, when the prophet was in the mosque leading the muslims in the pray and read long chapter from Quran and the happiness filled him as he stands between the hands of his beloved Allah, he heard a baby crying calling his mother and she was praying behind the prophet in the mosque, the prophet's heart could not stand to hear the cry of the little baby so, he sacrificed with his happiness and shorten the pray to make the mother back to her baby and the happiness back to the baby .
Mohamad says : " God says in the judgement day : son of Adam, i was ill and you did not visit me so, the man says : how could i visit you and you are the lord of the universes? so, god says : Did not you know that my slave ( and say his name ) was ill and you did not visit him , Did not you know that if you had visited him , you would have found me at him ? then god says : son of Adam, i asked you to feed me but you did not feed me so, the man says : God, how could i feed you and you are the lord of the universes? So god says : did not you know that my slave ( and say his name ) asked you to feed him, Did you know that if you had feed him, you would have found this at me? Then god says : son of Adam, i sought you for drinking me but you did not give me to dring, the man says : how could i gave you to drink and you are the lord of the universes? So, God says : my slave ( and say his name ) sought you for drinking him and you did not give him to drink, if you had done, you would have find this at me . "
Yes, your love to the creature is the love to the creator and your benevolence to the creature is a benevolence to the creator as the creature is a part of the creator and a piece from him and everything offends to the creature , offends to the creator.
Prophet of love said : could i tell you about something if you did, you will love each other ? Spread the peace between you .
Also, he said : three things clarify to you the pleasure of your brother, salute him if you met him, make room for him in the seat and call him with the best names he loves.
One day, the prophet was setting with one of his companions then a man passed through them so, the companion of the prophet pointed to the man who was passing through them and said : messenger of Allah, i love this man so, the prophet asked him : Did you tell him that ? the companion said : no, the prophet told him : Tell him so, the companion ran behind the man till he overtakes him and told him : I love you for Allah so, his friend replied him : may Allah who you loved me for, loves you .
Then the prophet put a general direction and said : " if one of you loved his brother, tell him that you love him "
Also, the prophet said : " if you were three, two do not commune without the third becaust it makes him sad "
Also,The prophet said : " it is not permissible for a believer to point to his brother with a look harms him"
The love and the sex:
Some of religions before Islam looked to the sex with a look of dirtiness and disapproving and proclaim to the celibacy and isolation in the deserts away from the society.
The saint Paule said : " the best for the man is not to touch a woman because i want all the people to be like me, i say to the non married and widowers that it is good for them if they stay as me "
( see the first message of Paule to Kornthos people 1,7-8 )
like this, Paule call all the people men and women to the celibacy , monasticism and loneliness without marriage and if the people had obeyed this proclaimation, the land would have been desolated and there would not be any grandsons for us still alive and there would not be any civilization or any kinds of science, Arts, creation and beauty that the man made it all over the ages so, Islam refused this unjust proclaimation to torment the soul and the death of the body, Allah says in Quran :
(And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.) [ Chapter : The Romans ]
One day, the prophet went to his wife Aisha, he found a woman setting with her and the misery filled his face and the careless is obvious on her clothes so, the prophet asked about her, so, they told him that she is a wife for a man called Osman ibn maz'oon and she complains that her husband is busy with worshipping all the day and night so, the prophet asked to see Osman and when he came, the prophet asked him : Do you fast at morning and pray all night? Osman answered : Yes so, the prophet told him : Do not do this, your body has a right on you and your family has a right on you so, give each one his right .
Osman obeyed the prophet and gave himself his right and his wife her wife so, the happiness returned to the house and to the family and became a good reproducer cell in society.
Each man from us is a soul and a body and the soul and the body are two faces to one coin so, as the soul has its right , the body also has its right and if the right of the soul is the faith , love and worshipping, the right of body is the food, sex and rest.
Giving the right to the body makes the soul happy and giving the right to the soul makes the body happy as both of them complete the other and if the man gave the complete right to his soul and body, he would be a good servant to God and natural human and he will live happy and tranquil and he will be acceptable to the work, struggle and success .
But giving the right to the body by food does not mean gluttony in eating and drinking and giving its right in resting does not mean laziness and idleness also, satisfying the instinct of sex does not mean decomposition from values and principles but it means practicing sex in its allowed limits while adultery is unlawful because it is gross injustice, gross injustice on the others.
One day, an arabian came to the prophet asking him in impudence to give him a permission to commit the adultery without limits because when he sees any woman , he wanted to sleep with her without control so, the prophet made the man sit beside him and put his hand on his shoulder and asked him in calmness : " Brother of Arabs , Do you like adultery to your mother ? the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it your wife?, the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it to your daughter?, the man said : No, the prophet asked : Do you like it to your sister ? the man said : No then the prophet said : also, people brother of arabs, do not like it to their mothers, wives, daughters or sisters so, the man said in bashfulness : so, pray to God for me to make me loves the chastity and makes me hate the debauchery so, the prophet put his hand with kindness on the chest of the man and pray for him, the man said : I swear by Allah, as soon as the prophet had said what he said , i left him and there is nothing is more be hated to my soul than adultery ".
Yes, love to your brother what you love to yourself and hate to your brother what you hate to yourself, do not commit adultery with his wife or his daughter or his sister, the people do not commit adultery
with yours .
marriage is a holy tie where the soul must be higher than body and the love must forepart the benefits while if marriage becomes vacant from love, it becomes heavy restiction.
The sex alone is a cold sense so, the prophet covet eagerly to make love is the main of sex and the condition to practice it, prophet of love said: " people who had believed , do not be thrown on your women like beasts but make between you and them a messenger, the companions asked : and what is the messenger , messenger of Allah ? he said : The kiss ".
The kiss here is not meant by itself but because it is considered a form of love and expression of feelings and a way from many other ways to awake the kindness.
The prophet of love covet eagerly to call the women to take care with theirselves and to clean their bodies and clothes and to polish the hands, limbs, hair and nails and generally to put the touches of beauty and feminity on their bodies and their shapes to gain their husbands' love.
One day, Hend bent abi sofian came to the prophet and told him :
" messenger of Allah, bargain me, the prophet said in anger : i will not bargain you till you change your hands, they are like to be hands of lion . "
think in his precious advices when he made attention to women about an important thing which they were inadvertents about it, an important thing that in which centers of beauty, houses of clothes, hair dresser shops, perfumes manfufacture and make up had been set up after this by hundreds of years all over the world.
And as the prophet guide the woman to things that make her husband loves her, also, he guided the man to the things that makes him glad with the love of his wife.
The first thing from these matters but the first of duties is clearness also, the prophet called the men to adorn, clean and to the good clothes till husband gain his wife love and admiration.
The prophet of love said to his companions : " wash your clothes, cut something from your hair, wash your teeth by Meswak, adorn and be clean as sons of Israel did not do this so, their wives commit adultery"
The previous religions before Islam did not care with the side of taking care of body and its clean and adornment and they proclaim with caring with soul only and they exaggerate to a degree that some of them imagine that the cleanness of the body and improvement the shape of man is hated thing and it is a showy which is against the religion but, this theory is wrong as both the soul and body are connected in the entiry of human so, it is not right to make the soul pure while the the body is dirty or to make the soul is the position of our care and the body is the position of our carelessness.
Aisha the wife of the prophet said : " one of the companions of the prophet were waiting for them outside the door and he was getting out for them, there was a vessel of water in the house so, he looked at the water and comb his beard and his hair so, i said : messenger of Allah, even you do this ? he said : yes, if the man comes out to see his brothers , he should polish himself as Allah is beautiful , loves the beauty. "
Although the generous messenger had great responsibilities and occupations and at the worst times during the increasement of griefs and accumulation of problems, he was the most flexible people with his wives, he was pity to let them ( his wives ) see him unsmiled in their faces, he was coveting eagerly to visit them at morning and evening and solve their problems and what may expose to them in their daily lives, he was laughing with them , he was helping their wives in the house works and take care with the service of house and the arrangement of it with them , he was calling his companions to imitate him and help their wives in all matters and encourage the men and say : " your service to your wives is alms . "
The love of the animals :
He (peace be upon him ) was feeding the animals with his hands and he was leaving his seat and leaving his friends to incline the vessel by himself in kindness to thirst cat and still holding the vessel between his hands in kindness and happiness to leave the enough time to the cat to irrigate its thirsty and if he heard at midnight sound of cat or dog at him feel with coldness or hungry , he was getting up from his bed eventhough he was tired , and open the door to serve this animal and stay beside him and do not back to his bed till he feels secure on this weak animal.
And if some of these animals had a disease , he cured it, watched over it , give it the medicine and take care of it till it was cured , he was cleaning his horse with the sleeve of his shirt and grieve for the death of a bird which the brother of his servant was amusing with it.
One day, Aisha was riding beast and it was walking slowly and Aisha afraid to be late from the convoy so, she hit the beast to make it hurry but, the prophet became upset for what she had done and told her : " Aisha, you should have kindness as Allah give for kindness what does not give for violence ".
Abdel rahman ibn abdel lah say : " we were with messenger of Allah in journey , we saw a bird with its 2 babies so, we took them from it so, it came flying around the nest looking for its babies, when the messenger came and saw the anxious bird and felt with its disturbance because of the absence of its babies, he looked at us in angry and said : " who distress this in its babies ? so, we told him about what we did , he said : give its babies back " .
Prophet of love said : " A woman had been tormented because of a cat, she imprisoned it till it died, neither she feed it or gave it to drink nor she left it eat from the wastes of the ground "
So, she entered the hell because of it , he also said : " Allah had forgived a debauchee woman because she passed through a dog on the head of a well gasping and the thirsty closed to kill him so, she took off her shoe , tied it with her veil, filled it with water and irrigate the dog so, Allah forgived her because of this "
A woman enter the hill because of a cat and another enter the paradise because of a dog, this because the matter at the end is not a matter of cat or dog but, it is the matter of heart, the matter of love, the love which is the main of faith.
The feelings of the prophet of love had exceed all the limits , he loved everything in the universe and everything created by Allah from human, animal, bird, plant and even the solid, he was not cutting a tree of flower , he was coviting eagerly his companions with plant, trees and flowers and taking care of them .
The love of Mohamad was not content with the living organisms only but also the solids, he said about Ohod mountain : " Ohod, a mountain, we love it and it loves us ".
In the mosque of the prophet in the town and before the menbar (wooden stairs to make the prophet in high position to be seen ) was made, he was making a speech to the prayers on Friday and in the occasions and feasts standing to the trunk of a palm so, when the menbar was made and the prophet stand on it for the first time , he turned his face and turned his sight towards the trunk of the noble palm that he was standing to it before, his eyes shed tears and when he finished the speech and the pray, he left the menbar and went to the palm and hug it in thinness and kindness, in loyality and yearning and he recommended with putting the trunk in the ceiling of the mosque and in the highest place in it for preserving it and honouring it .
Peace be upon you Mohamad, you who taught us the love, the origion of life and the main of love, the flowing of the good, the mover of life and the way to gain the hereafter, the happiness of earth and the comfort of paradise.
The love and nothing before love, the love and everything after love , the love and nothing except love and Allah the lover guide us to love and Allah the love fit us by love.